The meaning you place on anything makes it become absolute. This is how creation occurs. When you just ignore it, when it has no meaning to you, it has no cause to stay in your reality since it doesn’t demand to. Definitions are like beliefs, and by their very nature they also cause whatever you’ve defined to become absolute. And there’s no larger definition than how we define who we reckon we are. We believe we demand to become something however in circumstance the exact opposite is fair, it’s about letting go of something-and that something is whatever has been motivating us to live, the so-called “purpose” or “meaning” that we were told, much at a very early age, we’re supposed to have, which stays with us until we die. Such motivators really place us in a box, no longer autonomous of charge to respond however we feel. Once there is a purpose, immediately the intellect thinks it has to live up to that purpose or image, and from then on we immediately choose to act in a path that will (hopefully) convince everyone else we are excellent. More information: more info